You want to monetize your great idea.... And you feel anxious about putting in the work, committing to the end result, following through with your dream. I get it!
90% of entrepreneurs fail. Business is a risky adventure. It will take balls, your relentless desire to succeed, no matter what is thrown at you, no matter the judgment.
Shame is why many women give up on working on their business idea.
The question WHO AM I TO BRING THIS NEW IDEA TO THE WORLD is killing your chances to make a real impact.
So let me help you get rid of this shame.
First of all, try to remember when did you feel 'not good enough' for the first time.
Surely, it was WAAAAY before you started your business.
Whether you recollect that specific moment in time, or just bring up any situation when you felt ashamed of who you are and your desires, try to stay with your feelings.
What else comes up?
Anger?
Sadness?
Powerlessness?
Aloofness?
Why bother?
It's painful to 'go for what you want', because at the end that crippling feeling of doubt will show up and prevent you from completing your mission.
And... without completion nothing is actually done.
Nothing to celebrate.
Nothing to measure.
Nothing to judge.
This is interesting!
The fear of being judged and not to measure up, is exactly what sabotages your success.
It's not about YOU.
It's not even about your IDEA.
It's whether or not you can forgive yourself for not being perfect.
It's whether or not, you can dismiss the voice of judgement and do what you need, despite your self doubt.
While most people would look outwards for the answers, who is to blame for their failures, you, as an experienced coach and healer yourself, would know, that answer lies within.
Way back then, when you felt 'less than', it didn't happen because you were born doubtful or insecure... You internalized the voice of someone significant in your life. Your mother, your father, your older sibling, or a friend. It could have been your second grade teacher... whoever made you feel bad about yourself.
Shame is internalized guilt.
I want you to see that.
No one is born ashamed.
So how are you going to stop this horrible cycle of self sabotage?
Begin with a simple 'pattern interrupt' tool.
Ask yourself WHO's voice are you hearing when your self doubt shows up again?
Separate that voice of judgment from what is actually a real feedback.
Instead of feeling upset, aloof, angry, see whether there's truth to what's coming up for you. Do a 'reality check'.
If your 'reality check' shows, you need to course-correct, do it.
If your 'reality check' shows, you had fallen back into the habit of insecurity, face the habit, and carry on with completing your project.
In no time you will see your IDEA to be realized and changing this world for better. Your progress will become an undeniable part of your life.
And... as you complete your projects, you can expect the money flow SHAMELESSLY your way.
Remember, money follows success.
Success is only possible with your input.
Flow will not happen if you feel fearless and shameless once in a while. Flow is a flow because it never ends.
Let the money FLOW by creating a new habit of feeling CONFIDENT.
100% certain in your ability to make it!
Don't be afraid of receiving!
You deserve money and success.
As you deserve love and recognition.
No, it isn't wrong to want MORE from life.
It doesn't make you greedy or ungrateful.
It makes you a game changer.
You must rebel against all the shame you had been given about making money, wanting money.
Wanting anything at all! It's time to stand up for yourself and your dream! It's time to shake off guilt and shame of being you!
And... ONLY if you strongly DESIRE to experience your own shameless MONEY FLOW, click the link to join my $100K in 100 Days Challenge.
Be brave, be bold, be an inspiration!
Author: Lira Kay
Lira Kay is an international bestselling author, founder of School Of Inspired Life, a professional training center for expert coaches and healers to become world-class and in high demand.
Lira has been assisting people to transform their lives for almost 30 years, through spiritual healing workshops, psychotherapy, art, international curatorial projects, coaching, speaking and publishing.
Lira started her life coaching business 7 years ago and successfully led many transformational programs, such as 90 Days to Love, Be Phenomenal: Mindset To Empower, $10K From Monday To Friday and a $100K in 100 Days Challenge.
Her most popular one year programs Advanced Coaches and Healers Certification and Founders Lounge help successful coaches and thought leaders launch their own schools and academies and creates a solid foundation for a 7-figure transformational business.
After traveling the world Lira lives in Walnut Creek, CA with her husband and their 5 daughters. You can learn more about Lira’s work at www.schoolofinspiredlife.com